Top Dating Tips

Learn to handle rejection

Admin — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 15:08:55 +0000

Rejection is the most painful thing on this earth. As Mahatma Gandhi once said “Of all the pains I endured, being unwanted is the most horrible ever”. Such is the misery of being unwanted or being rejected that we want to go crazy, blame ourselves for the mishap and end our lives. Rejection has lead to suicides. It can really be that painful.
However thinking with a clearer mindset, rejection happens only because we feel disappointed at other’s person’s actions. The reason we get disappointed is, because, the other person did not behave in a way we expected them to. Hence expectation is the root cause of rejection. The lesser we expect, the lesser we feel rejected. Yes, it is definitely easier to say than to act this way.
Rejection can happen due a very simple reason that someone didn’t behave the way we wanted them to, or due to a very complex reason that one person cheats in a relationship. The first outcome of feeling rejected is feeling worthless or unimportant. We feel that only because we feel worthless the other person rejects us. First of all, we need to come out of this mental block and learn to accept that not everyone would behave the way we want them to.
There should be a open discussion as to why there was a disappointment and the partners must mutually agree on things that have to be done to make the relationship strong going forward. Where love prevails, rejection does not dominate. However where ego prevails, there is lot of room for rejection and misunderstanding. So problems can always be discussed and sorted out if the reason for rejection is simple.
However in cases where rejection happens because one partner is unfaithful in a relationship, then it goes beyond the compromising stage. Here the innocent partner has to take a call. If he / she cannot stand disloyalty then it is better to end the relationship in nice terms. There is no fun in continuing a strained relationship and there is no reason to feel rejected.

Figure out what to look for in a date

Admin — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 03:37:49 +0000

It is very important to get priorities right before entering into a date. One should know what he wants only then he will find satisfaction in his relationship. While writing personal ads, one must clearly specify what his priorities are and what he is looking for in his partner. This will help the online dating services to search only those compatible profiles and match it with his profile.
Some people might have beauty as their top most priority. These kind of people should first get the photographs of their potential dates and then proceed with the relationship. After asking a host of personal questions and sounding quite interesting to the other person and then if he rejects her after looking at the photo, the whole affair would look very immature.
Some people have education as their priority. They want their date to be highly qualified and they take immense pride in the qualification of their dates. These people might have to check for the education background and its authenticity too (if required), before entering into a commitment. Even for being a date, one has to be honest and hence it is better to set priorities right initially than repenting later.
Some people, for obvious reasons are interested in the financial security. They want their dates to be very well off and hugely successful because it would look great to go with a rich partner. He / she might want to parade around with his / her rich partner and take pride for himself. These kind of people must be very careful because one can never really prove how well off one is. These people should settle for someone who has a highly paid, secured job so that they don’t have to regret later.
Some interesting people look out for partners with a witty sense of humor. However overdose of humor could make the other person think that you are only trying to impress her, hence it is important to play just your part. Humor combined with wit is a huge hit among ladies and they want their men to be a ideal combination of both.

Online dating – a new way to find love

Admin — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 02:10:01 +0000

Internet has introduced far reaching changes to the way we live our lives today, not only is it easy to communicate with someone anywhere in the world via IM(Instant Messenger) if you like, you can also talk with them over VoIP and also see their faces as you talk to them if the two of you have a web cam. Every day this new radical changes are being extended, look at technology like social networking, one of the newest thin in social networking is the microbloging site Twitter which was reported to have grown by almost 2,000th with one year.

All the aforementioned radical changes brought about by the Internet is not only affect communication, it has affected out lifestyle significantly, the aspect of our life style this article focuses on is online dating.

You can still meet a man or a woman via the traditional means; introduction by a friend, meeting at a disco, chatting up a boy or girl at your school or college etc but there is a new radical way of meeting a new partner facilitated by, you guessed right; the Internet. There are not hundreds of thousands of online dating sites, most of which specialise in a nice for example there are site that specialise in helping UK residents meet such as ImYours Free UK dating site, sometime a dating site caters for multiple nice, continuing with the example of ImYour, in additon to its Free UK dating services, it has a premium dating services with a completely different database which is target at UK Singles Dating playfully named Come and get me ImYours.

There are other dating sites targeting various section of the society, some targets members by religions for example Muslim dating, Jewish dating, Christian dating, other targets members by sexual orientation such as dating sites for gay or lesbian only dating site. Some though called dating site, are more friendship site as the person they introduced you to is nothing more than an email pal. Emails pal, which is now fast replacing the age old pen pal, a platonic friendship usually characterised by exchange of messages only.

If all you have been using the Internet for is just browsing and sending emails, maybe its time you put the Internet to its full potential by using one of the popular dating website to find yourself the man or woman of your dreams.

Top 5 Online Dating Services

Admin — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:38:48 +0000

Online dating has caught up with the Indian youth, hence online dating service portals have been increasing in number. There are so many players in the market that the competition gets tougher and tougher. However, there are some online dating services that have come out successful purely due to the customer satisfaction levels. The top 5 online dating services are mentioned below. These are rated best based on the customer reviews received.

1. Perfectmatch.com – It has a huge master base containing loads of details and once we load our profile, it searches for a profile that is compatible to us and then we would be intimated of any profile that matches our requirements. This is the most popular online dating service among the youth. There are experts available from whom professional help can be sought. The customer satisfaction quotient is excellent and it has figured in many TV shows. The exciting offer that is available for the subscription currently is that, a two month free subscription is offered on registration for two months.

2. Match.com – This is the second most popular online dating services. We can load and edit our full profile here. On registration, we get to view other’s full profiles as well. We get exclusive mailbox wherein which we can develop contacts with people as and when we want. It is the world’s largest online dating service

3. Chemistry.com – This is another popular online dating service, wherein our personalities are tested and based on the compatibility of our personality chemistry, profiles are searched and intimated to us.

4. Yahoo.com – This is one of the most popular and user friendly online dating service which caters to the needs of all people irrespective of their age, gender, nationality etc. Full profiles can be loaded and people who view our profile can also be tracked.

5. Lavalife.com – This offers a variety of profiles for dating, flirting and for long term relationships. There is clear demarcation between all profiles and hence the users are free to choose based on their requirement.
These top 5 online dating services have taken the online dating market by storm and are growing strong because the customer loyalty they have been getting.

Get Over being dumped

Admin — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 19:38:56 +0000

Relationships involve both success and failure. We need to treat both equally in order to avoid stress for ourselves. Getting dumped by a partner is of course painful, however we need to get over it and start a fresh life all over again. Following are some of the points which we need to follow to get over being dumped.

1. Being dumped is certainly not the end of life. Life is full of new challenges and people. So let’s gear ourselves to meet these people.

2. Do not do anything to think about the unsuccessful relationship

3. Do not try to contact the person who dumped you

4. The person who dumped you was not worth your valuable relationship. Hence do not waste time and energy over that person

5. Destroy all old memories about that relationship

6. Do not keep any traces of pictures, or saved text messages from the person who dumped you

7. Take him out completely out of ur mind and soul. It has to be vacant to hold somebody else more important

8. Try to revive relationships that you had given a break during this unsuccessful date

9. Do not ever create self pity. You were not the sole reason behind the breakup. Hence do come out of it at the earliest

10. Take time for yourself. Do things that you enjoy, for yourself. Watch a good movie, read a good book, spend time gardening etc

11. Catch up with school friends. Get into some real time bonding. You never know what life has in store for you. So do not miss out on the chance of meeting new people

12. Attend family parties and weddings that you always missed till now. Meet relatives. Know who your family is.

13. Spend more time with kids below 5 years and people below 70 years. That will lighten your spirits

14. Give room for your mind to think

15. You are not going to brood all your life. The earlier you come out of the hurt, the better

16. There are lot more interesting things awaiting you. Make yourself accessible to the beautiful world

Happy New Year 2009

Admin — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 14:02:31 +0000

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Tips for Successful Online Relationships

Admin — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 12:27:19 +0000

Online Relationships require more effort from the partners than normal relationships. Online relationships are very delicate and there is a very thin line of demarcation between understanding and misunderstanding. Hence partners have to definitely go the extra mile in ensuring that their online relationships are successful and stand the test of time. There are a few tips mentioned below, to strengthen online relationships and to ensure that they are stable.

1. Be Honest – This is the foremost tip for success in any relationship, especially online relationships. It is always better to be honest and let our partner know about our family background, our dependants, and the way we live. Providing a rosy picture first and then cutting a sorry figure before our partner is almost unforgivable.

2. Being Yourself- This is again one of the most important condition for success in online relationships. There is no need to change dramatically or coerce the other person to change according to your preferences. There should be personal space and there should be mutual encouragement between the partners to lead their lives independently. This would only increase the love and trust in a relationship.

3. Going the extra mile – Online relationships definitely demand additional effort from the partners than normal relationships. Hence one has to be really careful in maintaining these kinds of relationships. Since there is not much of personal contact in online relationships, one has to be to really at his best behavior to keep the relationship going

4. Take it slowly – Never rush your partner into any kind of objectionable talk during the course of relationship. Online relationships are very delicate, so one should never make the mistake of forcing one’s partner into any kind of discomfort physically and emotionally. The secret of success in an online relationship is respecting the partner’s views as well. Hence the moment your partner expresses discomfort while talking a particular topic, please give them space. Eventually, as things get more and more comfortable in a relationship, things would happen naturally.

These simple tips would definitely bring about success in online relationships and ensure that it goes stable.

Dating profile writing

Admin — Sun, 14 Dec 2008 14:53:25 +0000

A personal ad is the first and foremost prerequisite before entering into a commitment. Personal ads are the ones that attract our potential dates. Hence it is very important to be very crisp and clear in our personal ads and avoid making it too lengthy. The following are some of the ground rules for writing effective personal ads.

1. Complete personal profile details with utmost honesty

2. Never try to be too subjective

3. Fill personal ads with accurate information

4. Add your photograph to make it look more meaningful. It is always nice to add a face to a name. It also helps in increasing bonding between dates

5. If you have any special skill, please include that without fail. Apart from normal characters like honesty, trustworthiness etc, people would like to know more about you. Hence include special skills. It could be ability to play a musical instrument, being able to speak five or more languages, visited ten or more countries, gardening etc

6. Be very polite in your personal ads. Do not over express and do not subdue your expressions as well. Have reasonable expectations about your partner and explain only those.

7. Do not try to portray yourself as the world’s most perfect person. Every person has its strengths and weaknesses. We should be proud to exhibit our strengths and be equally honest to accept our weaknesses

8. Honesty goes a long way in creating effective dates. Hence make it a point to talk out your mind

9. Never mind how bad your past was. Be clear on your future and list down your priorities in your personal ads

10. Do express yourself in a positive way. The other person must be really interested in your profile not because of your financial strength or qualification, but because of your honesty and passion towards life.

Personal ads should be a gateway for a new and long lasting relationship. Hence they must be given the due care and effort. A lot of effort must go in preparing the personal ads and they must have lot of honesty and positive attitude in them.

Avoid bad dates altogether

Admin — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 12:34:40 +0000

Dating is a common practice among youth of foreign countries. However sometimes, they do not know to differentiate between good dates and bad dates. Hence they fall into a trap of falling into a bad relationship and not knowing how to come out of it. To avoid all these unpleasant circumstances, it is better to understand what a bad date is all about and avoid it altogether.

Though many of us register ourselves on many online dating services and talk with lot of unknown people, very few of us fail to catch the signs when a date begins to go wrong. If that early signal is not recognized, then it becomes very difficult to recognize it at a later stage. The following points might help to know when a date actually is not going on the right path. This would help avoiding this initially and not repenting later.

1. Too much of personal information – When a date starts asking too many personal information like marital status, salary, financial comfort etc, physical description, etc, it is better to be careful and try to avoid this at the initial stage itself. If too much of personal information is divulged, then it might turn out to be very dangerous later

2. Rushing into things – When a date starts rushing into things , like wanting to meet immediately, wanting to have physical contact immediately etc, one has to be very careful. This is a sign that he / she wants to use the others person and then be done with her / him

3. Using obscene language – If one continuously keeps using objectionable language and does not seem to understand the sentiments of the other person, then it is clearly a sign as to what the other person wants out of that relationship. Such relationships should not be encouraged and should be avoided altogether.

These steps helping in judging a bad relationship from a good one and hence helps to put us in the right path of dating. Dating is a fun activity and it is better to live up to its fun content than encourage bad dates and make life messy for us.

Ask someone out on a date

Admin — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 10:40:34 +0000

Dating is one of the most common habits of the modern youth. The youth are interested in meeting new people and developing relationships with people who they find they are compatible with. However it is very important to know the mannerisms of asking someone out for a date. The word to watch out here is politeness.

One has to be really very polite when he / she asks somebody out for a date. They should convey to the other person that they are genuinely interested in them. They should express the fact that they want to spend some quiet quality time together and hence need to go out. There are equal reasons that a person might not be interested for a date and hence might reject. Hence one must know to handle rejections professionally and not to take the hurt into heart.

A guy has to rehearse many times before he asks for a girl out for a date. He also has to choose a special occasion. Rehearsals help the guy to go through the occasion casually rather than being too tense and act awkward before girl. Girls prefer confident guys and hence to acquire loads of confidence, rehearsals are necessary. The other important thing is to wear a smile always irrespective of the situation. There are only three answers when a guy asks a girl out for a date – accepting, rejecting or planning for a later date.
A smile could alter answers for a guy. Once he is rejected and he still sports a smile and confident look the girl might tend to change her mind. Gloomy faces do not attract women. Hence it is always better to be smiling. Even if the girl is busy on that particular day, the guy could always politely re schedule his date and again ask the girl out. Politeness combined with a pleasant, confident and positive attitude works wonders in a date.

Hence the key things to note while asking a person out on a date are politeness, timing, pleasant attitude and more importantly confidence. A combination of all these would definitely result in the person accepting the date.