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Learn to handle rejection

Admin — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 15:08:55 +0000

Rejection is the most painful thing on this earth. As Mahatma Gandhi once said “Of all the pains I endured, being unwanted is the most horrible ever”. Such is the misery of being unwanted or being rejected that we want to go crazy, blame ourselves for the mishap and end our lives. Rejection has lead to suicides. It can really be that painful.
However thinking with a clearer mindset, rejection happens only because we feel disappointed at other’s person’s actions. The reason we get disappointed is, because, the other person did not behave in a way we expected them to. Hence expectation is the root cause of rejection. The lesser we expect, the lesser we feel rejected. Yes, it is definitely easier to say than to act this way.
Rejection can happen due a very simple reason that someone didn’t behave the way we wanted them to, or due to a very complex reason that one person cheats in a relationship. The first outcome of feeling rejected is feeling worthless or unimportant. We feel that only because we feel worthless the other person rejects us. First of all, we need to come out of this mental block and learn to accept that not everyone would behave the way we want them to.
There should be a open discussion as to why there was a disappointment and the partners must mutually agree on things that have to be done to make the relationship strong going forward. Where love prevails, rejection does not dominate. However where ego prevails, there is lot of room for rejection and misunderstanding. So problems can always be discussed and sorted out if the reason for rejection is simple.
However in cases where rejection happens because one partner is unfaithful in a relationship, then it goes beyond the compromising stage. Here the innocent partner has to take a call. If he / she cannot stand disloyalty then it is better to end the relationship in nice terms. There is no fun in continuing a strained relationship and there is no reason to feel rejected.

Figure out what to look for in a date

Admin — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 03:37:49 +0000

It is very important to get priorities right before entering into a date. One should know what he wants only then he will find satisfaction in his relationship. While writing personal ads, one must clearly specify what his priorities are and what he is looking for in his partner. This will help the online dating services to search only those compatible profiles and match it with his profile.
Some people might have beauty as their top most priority. These kind of people should first get the photographs of their potential dates and then proceed with the relationship. After asking a host of personal questions and sounding quite interesting to the other person and then if he rejects her after looking at the photo, the whole affair would look very immature.
Some people have education as their priority. They want their date to be highly qualified and they take immense pride in the qualification of their dates. These people might have to check for the education background and its authenticity too (if required), before entering into a commitment. Even for being a date, one has to be honest and hence it is better to set priorities right initially than repenting later.
Some people, for obvious reasons are interested in the financial security. They want their dates to be very well off and hugely successful because it would look great to go with a rich partner. He / she might want to parade around with his / her rich partner and take pride for himself. These kind of people must be very careful because one can never really prove how well off one is. These people should settle for someone who has a highly paid, secured job so that they don’t have to regret later.
Some interesting people look out for partners with a witty sense of humor. However overdose of humor could make the other person think that you are only trying to impress her, hence it is important to play just your part. Humor combined with wit is a huge hit among ladies and they want their men to be a ideal combination of both.

Online dating – a new way to find love

Admin — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 02:10:01 +0000

Internet has introduced far reaching changes to the way we live our lives today, not only is it easy to communicate with someone anywhere in the world via IM(Instant Messenger) if you like, you can also talk with them over VoIP and also see their faces as you talk to them if the two of you have a web cam. Every day this new radical changes are being extended, look at technology like social networking, one of the newest thin in social networking is the microbloging site Twitter which was reported to have grown by almost 2,000th with one year.

All the aforementioned radical changes brought about by the Internet is not only affect communication, it has affected out lifestyle significantly, the aspect of our life style this article focuses on is online dating.

You can still meet a man or a woman via the traditional means; introduction by a friend, meeting at a disco, chatting up a boy or girl at your school or college etc but there is a new radical way of meeting a new partner facilitated by, you guessed right; the Internet. There are not hundreds of thousands of online dating sites, most of which specialise in a nice for example there are site that specialise in helping UK residents meet such as ImYours Free UK dating site, sometime a dating site caters for multiple nice, continuing with the example of ImYour, in additon to its Free UK dating services, it has a premium dating services with a completely different database which is target at UK Singles Dating playfully named Come and get me ImYours.

There are other dating sites targeting various section of the society, some targets members by religions for example Muslim dating, Jewish dating, Christian dating, other targets members by sexual orientation such as dating sites for gay or lesbian only dating site. Some though called dating site, are more friendship site as the person they introduced you to is nothing more than an email pal. Emails pal, which is now fast replacing the age old pen pal, a platonic friendship usually characterised by exchange of messages only.

If all you have been using the Internet for is just browsing and sending emails, maybe its time you put the Internet to its full potential by using one of the popular dating website to find yourself the man or woman of your dreams.

Top 5 Online Dating Services

Admin — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:38:48 +0000

Online dating has caught up with the Indian youth, hence online dating service portals have been increasing in number. There are so many players in the market that the competition gets tougher and tougher. However, there are some online dating services that have come out successful purely due to the customer satisfaction levels. The top 5 online dating services are mentioned below. These are rated best based on the customer reviews received.

1. Perfectmatch.com – It has a huge master base containing loads of details and once we load our profile, it searches for a profile that is compatible to us and then we would be intimated of any profile that matches our requirements. This is the most popular online dating service among the youth. There are experts available from whom professional help can be sought. The customer satisfaction quotient is excellent and it has figured in many TV shows. The exciting offer that is available for the subscription currently is that, a two month free subscription is offered on registration for two months.

2. Match.com – This is the second most popular online dating services. We can load and edit our full profile here. On registration, we get to view other’s full profiles as well. We get exclusive mailbox wherein which we can develop contacts with people as and when we want. It is the world’s largest online dating service

3. Chemistry.com – This is another popular online dating service, wherein our personalities are tested and based on the compatibility of our personality chemistry, profiles are searched and intimated to us.

4. Yahoo.com – This is one of the most popular and user friendly online dating service which caters to the needs of all people irrespective of their age, gender, nationality etc. Full profiles can be loaded and people who view our profile can also be tracked.

5. Lavalife.com – This offers a variety of profiles for dating, flirting and for long term relationships. There is clear demarcation between all profiles and hence the users are free to choose based on their requirement.
These top 5 online dating services have taken the online dating market by storm and are growing strong because the customer loyalty they have been getting.

Looking for dating tips ?

Admin — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 16:30:54 +0000

This is the era of information technology where every home is blessed with a computer and an internet connection. The fast changing cultures don’t even let our youngsters cross the age of the teens, when they get into the category of young adults to start their first dating experience.
Dating is not over when you go out with a person a couple of times. Initial attraction needs to be replaced by bonding and the relationship needs to be nourished and encouraged through constant care and love. Getting into a dating relationship is very simple when compared to nourishing it and improvising on what is already in place.

The first and foremost rule of dating basics is being oneself. There is no point in trying to paint a saintly picture. The truth is going to be out in the light sooner or later so no point putting up pretence. Showing one’s true self to your date and accepting your partner as they are is a key to a healthy dating relationship. The fun factor should never be lost in a dating relationship. Every day should be treated as fun and happiness and it should be ensured that the dating pair has the maximum fun. This is very important for in bad days the memories of these fun filled days is what carries the pair through.

Another important factor that has to be learnt in the online dating business is the importance of communication. Clear communication and clean language are essential for any relationship all the more for one like dating. When communication fails, the whole relationship is endangered. Also in case of decisions that need to be taken, both partners need to be very accommodative and ready to adjust so that both of them end up having a good time.

Last but not the least, continued love, care and kindness is what will ensure that the dating reaches great heights says the guide to online dating. The fact that there is a person who loves you no matter what is a source of great strength and power and this is the only thing that helps you carry on even in tough times.